Your night. Your circle.
Make the plan. Enjoy the date.
Keep your people close.
Private plans and check-ins for nights out, with the people you trust.
Core safety tools are free. iPhone & Android. 18+.
A plan before.
A check-in during.
A home-safe after.
A little planning. A lot more presence.
An example evening
01 / 03Coffee with Alex
7:00 PM · Your favorite café
Your chosen circle
Interactive preview. No messages are sent.
Example date plan, ready to share with your circle.
Made for the whole evening.
A few thoughtful steps.
More room to enjoy your night.
Your people.
Not the public.
A little peace of mind, on your terms.
- You choose your circle
- Share your plans with the people you trust. No public profiles.
- Your journal stays yours
- Your reflections are private. They are not shared with your circle.
- Location, on your terms
- Location is optional. Choose whether to share it during a session.
Core safety tools.
No subscription required.
Two trusted contacts, safety sessions, check-ins, alerts, and a duress PIN are free. Make a plan, share it, and keep your people in the loop.
A little more, with Plus.
Optional extras for your routine: live watch links, an unlimited circle, a private journal, and custom check-in timing.
Explore Plus in the appGood questions.
Is DateSafe a dating app?
No swiping, matching, or public reviews. DateSafe is a private safety companion for dates and meetups: make a plan, share it with people you trust, and check in along the way. It is for adults 18 and over.
What happens if I miss a check-in?
DateSafe sends reminders, then alerts your opted-in trusted contacts if you still have not checked in. You can check in or extend your timer when plans change. Alerts depend on network and messaging availability; they do not contact emergency services.
Does my circle need the app?
No. Your trusted contacts receive an invitation by text. Once they opt in, they can receive alerts by text and open the private links you share in their browser.
Can I use DateSafe for free?
Yes. Two trusted contacts, Date Cards, safety sessions, 30-, 60-, or 90-minute check-ins, panic alerts, and a duress PIN are free. DateSafe Plus adds optional features such as live watch links, more contacts, and a private journal.
Is my journal shared?
No. Your private journal is separate from the Date Cards and session information you choose to share. Journal notes and photos are not shared with your circle. Creating and editing journal entries requires DateSafe Plus; reading and deleting existing entries does not.
What happens in an emergency?
DateSafe helps you alert your trusted circle and opens your phone's dialer to call 911. It is not an emergency service and cannot guarantee help will arrive. If you are in immediate danger, call emergency services.
Go make a good memory.
Set up your circle before your next date.